A discotheque
in Lucknow was recently witness to a dramatic scene that best
reflects the changing contours of Avadh's once-proud capital.
A woman stormed onto the dance floor, slapped a teenaged girl,
her language replete with references to tahzeeb (etiquette) and
tameez (manners), even as she dragged the hapless girl out. The
girl, along with a friend, had earlier sneaked into the disco
wearing a decorous salwar-kameez but had changed into a red micro-mini
and was all set to hit the floor when her mother appeared from
nowhere. City bookshop owner Chander Prakash of Universal Books
is less vocal but as enraged as he points out the decline of a
civilisation, specifically the degeneration in zubaan (language)
from the polite "aap" to "tum" and now "tu".
"I was speechless when the other day a young customer called
me tu," he says. "What can I do except watch the rot?"
While the oldtimers vouch for the decay of old Lucknow, redolent
of a rich and refined culture, the lobbyists for change say the
city is only coming out of a time warp. Nawab Jafar Mir Abdullah,
a direct descendent of Nawab Asaf-ud-Daula, the benevolent ruler
who built some of Lucknow's best known architectural structures
like the Bara Imambara and Rumi Darwaza, sadly shakes his head
as he talks of the invasion of the neo-Lucknowis. "The younger
lot, the children of bureaucrats, criminalised politicians, traders
and contractors, have ruined the city with their wealth,"
Abdullah claims. "Talim to hai, tarbiat nahi. Tarbiat nahi
to tahzeeb nahi (They are educated but not groomed well. When
there is no grooming, there can be no etiquette)."
S.S. Bindra, director of Wave, the city's new multiplex that houses
four movie halls and an array of flashy showrooms, begs to differ.
"If you don't change you will be left out. In the process
of change a clash of cultures is bound to happen," he reasons.
So as more and more boys and girls gather at roadside bars and
liquor joints for "bhaloo nach", the code word for beer
sessions, veterans like Ram Advani, who runs the eponymous bookshop
in Hazratganj since 1948, says there seems to be no method in
the madness. "A dying culture always gives birth to a new
sub-culture that has its own rules and language, and this has
hit Lucknow." The city, he says, is showing signs of aggression
that would ultimately destroy its unique identity.
For girls like Nadira, who belongs to a conservative, middle-class
Muslim family, it is peer pressure that often dictates their lives.
Nadira admits that when she goes to birthday parties of friends,
she wears the burqa, but promptly removes it once inside the friend's
house and lets her hair down, literally. "Some of my friends
spike the drinks and when I refuse it they pointedly ask, 'Tu
backward hi rahegi kya (You want to remain a backward)?'"
Local beauty pageants are quickly gaining acceptability as girls
from rich and influential families have started participating
in them. Wamiq Khan, who runs an event management company, says
that when he first launched the ramp culture in the city in 1996
he faced a lot of resistance, not only from the administration
but from the models themselves who refused to wear skirts or pants.
No such inhibitions exist now, he says, saying the models today
are ready to give the likes of Mallika Sherawat and Bipasha Basu
a run for their money when it comes to the dare-to-bare act.
The dichotomy of cultures is not something new, says Ibn-e Hassan,
an advocate and prominent social figure of the city. Lucknow has
been in constant conflict with change, first during the Raj and
later since Independence. Partition transported a large number
of refugees from West Punjab and Sindh to the city, who resettled
here and swamped the Lucknavi culture with their own, says Hassan.
Abdullah points out that the post-independence period saw the
alienation of noblemen from the political mainstream. In their
place came the politicians from outside with their armies of lumpen
lackeys. The 1990s saw the emergence of a more insidious political
culture that used the tools of casteism and communalism to capture
power-and threatened to destroy the composite culture of the city.
Also, like several other Indian cities, Lucknow succumbed to the
vicissitudes wrought by the New Economy boom, a change further
catalysed by its proximity to Delhi.
The contradiction of cultures is reflected in the two parts of
the city itself-old Lucknow, where the aroma of the kakori kebabs
wafts happily with the undulating strains of Hindustani music,
and the new trans-Gomti zone of high rises, commercial complexes
and fast-paced living. The Sahara India group has already come
up with the sprawling Sahara Shahar and an ultra-modern supermarket
complex, Ganj. The government too, enthused by the transforming
landscape, has drawn up a plan for a futuristic township known
as the Gomti Nagar Extension project. Besides, several resorts,
water parks and fun clubs have mushroomed giving new meaning to
fun and entertainment.
For the younger generation, eager to break free from the shackles
of Lucknavi culture, the city offers jazzy fast food joints such
as McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Dominos, cafes like Barista and Cafe
Coffee Day and nightspots like eX's Club which also has a bowling
alley. Nidhi Sharma, a young school teacher, who is a regular
at eX's, explains away the changing attitudes of the youth. "You
come out of old Lucknow that still protects its old tahzeeb and
you feel you have stepped into an entirely new world full of excitement
and action," she says. "It is a kind of free zone where
youngsters don't want to clothe their inner selves."
The contradictions do exist but there is also an attempt to marry
them, for Lucknow's glorious past still remains a good marketing
proposition. So if five-star hotels in the city set in motion
the night life in the city, the cuisine that dominates the spread
from Clarks Avadh to the Taj Residency is ubiquitously Avadh.
So even if Advani warns that the brand new world is standing on
the ruins of Lucknavi tahzeeb, others like Urdu poet Rais Ansari
who lives in old Lucknow, argue that the change is natural and
welcome. Says Ansari: "Old people always look at the shafaq,
the golden rays spread on the horizon by the sinking sun, while
the youth get inspiration from ufaq, the red rays of the rising
sun that bathes the morning." And in the city of eternal
dualities, the sun has not yet set on the Lucknavi tahzeeb.
Credit: By
Farzand Ahmed / India Today